Three weeks before my grandmother Ruth died, she donated her treasured jewelry set to her church.<\/p>\n
She wanted it auctioned to raise money for families who couldn\u2019t afford groceries.<\/p>\n
Twelve days later, she passed away.<\/p>\n
The following Sunday, I saw the pastor\u2019s wife, Susan, wearing Grandma\u2019s necklace, bracelet, and earrings.<\/p>\n
When I asked where she got them, she lied.<\/p>\n
\u201cMy mother left them to me.\u201d<\/p>\n
I knew it was Grandma\u2019s set because of a dent beside the clasp.<\/p>\n
The pastor eventually claimed Susan had bought the jewelry privately for $800 and that the money went to charity.<\/p>\n
There was one problem.<\/p>\n
Grandma\u2019s set had been appraised at nearly $12,000.<\/p>\n
Then I started asking questions.<\/p>\n
I discovered other valuable donated items\u2014a designer bag, watches, an espresso machine, and a coat\u2014had also ended up with the pastor\u2019s relatives through private \u201csales.\u201d<\/p>\n
So at the next fundraiser, I displayed everything publicly.<\/p>\n
Grandma\u2019s jewelry:
\nEstimated value: $11,800.
\nSold privately: $800.<\/p>\n
The room exploded with questions.<\/p>\n
The church board investigated.<\/p>\n
A month later, the pastor and his wife returned items and paid back what was owed.<\/p>\n
Grandma\u2019s jewelry was finally auctioned properly.<\/p>\n
It sold for $12,500.<\/p>\n
Weeks later, one elderly church member called me.<\/p>\n
\u201cThey filled my whole grocery bag.\u201d<\/p>\n
Grandma had only asked for one thing:<\/p>\n
\u201cMake sure it helps somebody.\u201d<\/p>\n
In the end, it finally did.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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