My 70-year-old mother had spent decades living with back and shoulder pain.<\/p>\n
So she finally scheduled breast reduction surgery.<\/p>\n
My dad hated the idea.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou\u2019re perfect the way you are,\u201d he kept saying.<\/p>\n
But Mom wasn\u2019t doing it for beauty. She wanted relief.<\/p>\n
The surgery went well, but when I brought her home, every mirror in her bedroom was gone.<\/p>\n
\u201cBrad, what did you do?\u201d Mom asked.<\/p>\n
Dad looked terrified.<\/p>\n
Then he admitted the surgeon had found a firm mass in tissue removed from her left breast. It had been sent for testing.<\/p>\n
Dad had panicked because Mom\u2019s mother had survived breast cancer and a mastectomy.<\/p>\n
He removed the mirrors because one side looked noticeably different after surgery, and he didn\u2019t want Mom to see herself and immediately imagine the worst.<\/p>\n
But Mom was furious.<\/p>\n
\u201cThat\u2019s what everyone did when my mother was sick,\u201d she said. \u201cDon\u2019t look. Don\u2019t ask. Let someone else handle it.\u201d<\/p>\n
Then she demanded her mirror back.<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019m 70 years old. I can handle knowing.\u201d<\/p>\n
Four agonizing days later, the call finally came.<\/p>\n
The mass was benign.<\/p>\n
Dad cried with relief.<\/p>\n
That evening, he rehung every mirror.<\/p>\n
Weeks later, he saw Mom studying her reflection.<\/p>\n
Instead of telling her she looked beautiful, he simply asked:<\/p>\n
\u201cHow do you feel?\u201d<\/p>\n
Mom smiled.<\/p>\n
\u201cLike I finally did something good for myself.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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