A few years ago, I fell in love with a man and we started a relationship. Everything was going well \u2014 except there were certain days and times when he simply couldn\u2019t come over. I assumed he was busy, so I didn\u2019t question it.<\/p>\n
Recently, I learned the truth: he was married. He had a wife of ten years and three children. I only found out when his wife confronted me about the affair.<\/p>\n
Afterward, he begged me to stay, insisting he would leave his wife so we could have the life we\u2019d talked about. But something didn\u2019t feel right anymore. If he could do that to her, what could he do to me?<\/p>\n
Weeks passed with him pleading and me pushing him away. Then he claimed he had filed for divorce because he didn\u2019t want to lose me.<\/p>\n
Last week, I discovered I was pregnant with his child.<\/p>\n
Shortly after, his wife called and asked to meet. Over coffee, she warned me not to trust him, saying he cheated often. Then she made an unexpected request \u2014 she asked if her children could meet the baby someday, since they share the same father.<\/p>\n
Now I\u2019m torn. What do I do about the baby\u2019s father? And should I allow his children to know my child?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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