At first, I was happy to help my pregnant coworker. I picked up lunch, grabbed her reports, and covered meetings when she felt unwell. I assumed it was temporary\u2014just supporting a teammate.<\/p>\n
But soon, she began forwarding her tasks to me almost daily, blaming \u201cbaby brain.\u201d When I asked her to stop, she laughed it off, saying I\u2019d understand someday. It didn\u2019t feel like teamwork anymore\u2014it felt like being taken advantage of.<\/p>\n
Then things escalated. One morning, I walked in to find her sitting at my desk. She casually said she needed the space more because she felt nauseous. That was the breaking point. I left her a note asking to talk after work, but she ignored it and instead reported me to our manager for being \u201cpassive-aggressive.\u201d<\/p>\n
HR later told me my tone was inappropriate and that I should be more understanding. Meanwhile, my coworkers began distancing themselves, quietly siding with her simply because she\u2019s pregnant.<\/p>\n
Now I\u2019m being pressured to apologize. I\u2019m not against supporting someone in need\u2014but where is the line? At what point does empathy turn into enabling bad behavior?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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